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Date of Separation in Ontario: What is it and why does it matter?

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The date of separation is not just about emotional closure

When it comes to untangling the threads of a relationship in Ontario, the date of separation holds significant sway. It's not just a marker of emotional closure; it's a legal milestone that can shape the course of your divorce journey. So, let's delve into the specifics of why this date matters.

Understanding the Date of Separation

In the realm of Ontario divorce law, the date of separation serves as a pivotal point of reference. Here's why it's so crucial:

  • The Waiting Game:
    In Ontario, you must wait a minimum of 12 months from the date of separation before you can file for divorce. This waiting period is non-negotiable and serves as a cooling-off period before making the split official.
  • Property Division:
    Ontario follows the principle of equalization when it comes to dividing marital property. This means that the value of assets accumulated during the marriage is subject to division. The date of separation acts as the cutoff point for determining what constitutes marital property.
  • Financial Independence:
    Once you've crossed the threshold of separation, anything you acquire afterward is considered your individual property. No more joint ownership or splitting assets with your former spouse. It's a clean break, financially speaking.

Choosing the Date: Ontario's Unique Considerations

Now, when it comes to pinning down the date of separation in Ontario, there's a bit of wiggle room. While some couples agree on a specific date that marks their separation, others may look to key events or actions:

  • Moving out of the shared residence
  • Ceasing to present as a couple in public
  • Separating finances, such as opening individual bank accounts
  • Ceasing to engage in marital activities, such as intimate relations

Mediation Can Help with Your Date of Separation

In the quest to determine the date of separation, disagreements can arise. That's another example where mediation shines. A mediator can assist in facilitating discussions and reaching a mutually agreeable resolution. With their expertise in Ontario's legal landscape, they can provide invaluable guidance tailored to your specific situation. Remember, while mediation offers substantial benefits, it complements rather than replaces the need for independent legal advice. It serves as a valuable tool to bring you and your ex-spouse closer to a resolution that respects both of your needs and priorities.

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About the Author

Laura Tarcea

Laura is a family mediator dedicated to supporting families through divorce or separation. With a background in Mental Health, Research, Program Development, and a Master of Laws in Dispute Resolution, Laura brings valuable insight and critical knowledge to parents. She strongly believes that a healthy co-parenting relationship will protect children from short-term and long-term damage. As such, Laura is a supporter of out-of-court processes to help equip parents with appropriate tools to succeed in their next chapter.

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